November 13th, 1999 I asked Jesus to save me. That was 17 years ago today. As I think about my journey with Jesus, it has been full of great moments. The kind of moments that fill you with pride, gratitude, and great joy. I have gotten to participate in some pretty amazing ministry endeavors in the last 17 years.

I can also look back on some times that were not so pretty.

It is easy, and even normal with the way social media is used, to romanticize our journey with Christ. You know what I mean. Seriously, who wants to hear about our weaknesses? Who wants to hear about those moments when life is hard? Who wants to hear about our failures?

I'm tired of all that. No wonder people are so disenfranchised with the church. We can maintain a facade of perfection but people see through that.

I have walked with Jesus for 17 years. 12 of those years I have served Him actively in ministry.

That sounds awesome, right.

What you don't is that over the course of these years, I have done many things I am not proud of. Sometimes even blatantly doing things I know to be wrong or sinful.

Today, I am reminded how incredibly thankful I am for my salvation. I am thankful for God's patience with me and I am thankful for his grace, that not only saved me 17 years ago, but continues to save me today.

My relationship with Jesus is the most important relationship in my life. Today, I approach every other relationship I have with a renewed sense of purpose as I intend to honor Jesus any way I can as I love the folks he has placed in my life. I want to be a better husband, father, and friend because of Jesus. I want those I love to experience His love through me.

By God's grace, it will happen.

Day by day.

Step by step.

For by one sacrifice he has made perfect forever those who are being made holy.
Hebrews 10:14


I have a few devotion books I try to read each day. Sometimes a few days creeps by between picking them up. Among these is a "A Year with C.S. Lewis".

As I read this evening, I began to think about the world we live in.

It would be easy to paint a picture of the world as being hopelessly evil.

With the advancement of technology we have an ever increasing knowledge of what is happening in any corner of the globe almost instantly. We know more of the evil that happens now more than ever before.

Let's not even mention the way the media sensationalizes every story to fit their agenda.

Having said that, here is my reading from today in my Lewis' devotional. This reading was accompanied my the heading/title The Real Test:

“Suppose one reads a story of filthy atrocities in the paper. Then suppose that something turns up suggesting that the story might not be quite true, or not quite so bad as it was made out. Is one's first feeling, 'Thank God, even they aren't quite so bad as that,' or is it a feeling of disappointment, and even a determination to cling to the first story for the sheer pleasure of thinking your enemies are as bad as possible? If it is the second then it is, I am afraid, the first step in a process which, if followed to the end, will make us into devils. You see, one is beginning to wish that black was a little blacker. If we give that wish its head, later on we shall wish to see grey as black, and then to see white itself as black. Finally we shall insist on seeing everything -- God and our friends and ourselves included -- as bad, and not be able to stop doing it: we shall be fixed for ever in a universe of pure hatred.”

― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

May we aim to see God moving in the midst of the most evil circumstance. Let us be quick to be relieved instead of wishing "that black was a little blacker".

In a world of much bad, there is much good to be found. Look for it. As you do, you will likely see God doing what He does best. Working out "all things" for good. Turning messes into miracles.


We live in a world where it is normal, and even accepted, to blame others. Even when WE are in the wrong. Blame shifting is a way to divert attention away from us and place it anywhere else. To avoid the conflict, awkwardness, embarrassment, tension, etc.

This is so common that we even read scripture for ammo and utilize it as a weapon.

The Bible works best when it is personalized. Not used to launch an assault on others.

When you open the Bible asking God to speak to you, it is amazing how little time you have to point fingers at others.

Look at this verse as one example:

"Search ME, God, and know MY heart; test ME and know MY anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in ME, and lead ME in the way everlasting." Psalm 139:23-24

You see that. Our prayers and our studies of scripture are intended to be personal. Only then are we in a position to help others.

We need to make sure that we are not pointing out faults in others without addressing our own faults. That makes us look like busybodies who do not practice what we preach.

Before you, or I, point our fingers in condemnation, let us commit to first pointing at ourselves. Evaluating and comparing our own lives to God's standard before taking aim at our friends and others.

Point at yourself. You may learn something. You may discover your greatest, most challenging, most rewarding project.

get real

We are living in a society of impostors. Everybody everywhere is pretending to be someone or something they are not.

I believe much of this is due to how consumed we are by social media.

It's easy to show people the stuff we want them to see. It's just as easy to hide those things we don't want folks to see. Sorta like sweeping stuff under the rug. It's all still there. We just hide it and pretend it is not.

I'm not a fan of that.

I know how messed up I am. I know how messed up my friends are. The only people we really fool are those who don't really know us that well.

Each of us were created uniquely and specifically by God. We all have different talents and abilities. We all have different hangups and shortcomings.

Let's embrace who we are and where we are in life. God is not interested in the fake version of me and He is not interested in the fake version of you. He can't use that.

The masquerade ends one person at a time, as we choose to be real.

I'm taking off the mask. Will you join me?

A New Year's Thought/Challenge for 2016

In February of 2015 I took my wife to see Tracy Lawrence in Charlotte, NC. The place we went was a bar, dancehall, entertainment venue all rolled into one. As we were sitting on the balcony overlooking the place, Patricia kept watching these people on the dancefloor.

They were dancing and she wanted to do it too. I did not. So she took to the floor and joined in the fun. Some old guy even tried to teach her a couple of steps.

This is a picture we took that night.

As I sat and took it all in from my perch, I pulled my notebook from my back pocket. Watching my wife, I penned these words:

Sometimes, it's ok to take a risk.
Go out on a limb.
Maybe even look a little silly.
In doing so, you let others know it's ok to do the same.
You may even learn something.
They may go on to change the world.

Looking back, I regret not getting out there myself.

The takeaway from this is pretty simple.

Oftentimes, the things God calls us to do will not be easy. His call may force us out of our comfort zones and into areas where we feel alone. We may feel uncertain, fearful, and clueless.

That's OK. These feelings are natural and having them does not disqualify us.

The important thing is taking our next steps regardless of how we feel about it. Obedience to God's call is more important than our pride or any other thought or feeling we may have to use as an excuse.

As you journey through this new year, be adventurous. Take chances. Be bold and courageous. Look and listen for where God is calling you to go and make your move.

Step by step. This will be a great year and God will do great things.

Silver Linings pt 2

We all have a big grey cloud we COULD focus on.  You know, all the negative aspects of our situations & circumstances.  

I believe with all my heart that those who make the greatest difference in this life are those that focus not on the cloud, but the silver lining, the bright spots in those things we face.

There is ALWAYS a silver lining.

Sometimes the shiny stuff is obvious.  We just have to choose to focus on the positive over the negative.  

Often, life can seem so overwhelming that it gets really difficult to find or focus on anything good.  We pray for God to give us a break (as we yell, or whine, or scream, or cry....).  It is not uncommon for a friend or someone outside our mess to be the one to bring something positive to our attention.

The band Kutless tells us in their song "What Faith Can Do" that we have "gotta face the clouds, to find the silver lining.". 

We must face our clouds.  Even our darkest ones.  In doing so, we can see how strong we are.  We can be shaped by the trial.  

We can choose to let our cloud make us better.  We can choose to search out that silver lining & be positive in the midst of negative chaos.  

As we do this & journey through life, others will look at us astonished.  

They might even question how we do it.

Silver Linings part 1

"Every cloud has a silver lining".  Generally this phrase is tossed around as someone is facing a difficult circumstance or trying season in life.

The truth contained in this little phrase is transforming if we choose to look for those "silver linings".  

As I served in Iraq I dealt with a man in a leadership position over me.  He did not like me.  I ended up losing rank.  

One night at dinner one of my soldiers was giving me a hard time about it.  I looked up & said, "it's ok.  I still have a hot wife & a cute kid & they don't care what rank is on my chest".  

As I continued eating this soldier responded, "D*** it Clark!  How do you ALWAYS do that?!".  "What?", I asked.  He said, "No matter what happens you always find a silver lining!".  

As I reflected on that chow time conversation I thought of something profound.

Everyone has a big, grey cloud they COULD focus.  

The folks that make the greatest difference & have the biggest impact in THIS life are those who choose to focus on the silver lining.

Look for part 2 sometime this week.  Love y'all.